Aloha, My Friend,
It is interesting that October brings us the death month of both Edgar Allen Poe and Harry Houdini.
Taken in the context of the dark, goth lamentations of a husband mourning the death of his young wife, the poem Annabelle Lee is an amazing tribute to the endurance of love. The requiem was written after the death of his young wife, Virginia, a first cousin who was just 13 when she wed the 27 year old unemployed writer and editor. She was barely 19 when she died of consumption, tuberculosis. You can close your eyes and see him laying jackknifed and crying across her grave when you read –
But our love was stronger by far than the love
Of those who were older than we
Of many far wiser than we
And neither the angels in heaven above,
Nor the demons down under the sea,
Could ever dissever my soul from the soul
Of the beautiful Annabelle Lee
That is breathtaking.
Paul Simon once said that his most successful songs all began the same; he found a simple truth and turned it into a song.
And we loved with a love that was more than love
I and by Annabelle Lee
Long ago, on a deserted St. Pete Beach, I was able to recite that poem to someone who let me pass through her life. And it was in October too. The tide was slacking and we walked barefoot in the wet, ebb tide sand. It wasn’t hand-in-hand, I was a bit of a shy boy and a bit afraid of trusting myself with the simple act of touching the cupped palm of a young woman.
So, I walked beside her, mostly facing her. As we strolled the first fall weather cool air began to mix with the lingering warm hurricane waters of the Gulf and a veil of mist came alive and played around us, and clung to us and even softly hushed the rhythm of the breaking waves.
My early dating nervousness wouldn’t allow for the clichéd “comfortable silence” and so I yammered on until I found myself reciting Annabelle Lee to her to honor Poe and to hint that I too could be a brooding romantic. While I spoke the dewlets were sparkling in her raven hair. I had never watched anything like that before, it was like watching a flower awaken and unfold in the sunlight, her hair began to coil and whorl around her face and shoulders. I was amazed. I told her that Houdini had died on Halloween some 50 years before but the curling of her hair was like watching one of his magic tricks just standing next to her.
I guess that as a joke she asked if I knew any magic tricks and, as the goofy kid I was, I asked that if I could successfully do three tricks would she let me kiss her.
She said yes.
So, I took a folded piece of paper from my shirt pocket and a Bic pen and without letting her see I wrote the numbers 3, 7 and her first name. I then gave her the pen and asked her to pick a number between 1 and 5 and to write it in the sand. She wrote 3. Then I asked her to do the same thing with numbers between 1 and 10. She wrote 7. Finally, I challenged her to write one word in the sand and she wrote her first name.
And there upon I got my first kiss from her. Little did I realize then that it was my boarding ticket to a train wreck.
And maybe by now she has figured out that 90% of the people will give the same answers. You can see this for yourself the next time you are in an office supply store. Look at the white pad of paper where you can test pens and among the doodles you will find mostly first names.
I guess that I was lucky that I got through my teens and early twenties before the terms nerd and geek became popular.
Yet I honestly believe to this very day that if a guy won’t do something bold and goofy for a kiss he might not deserve the sweetness of one. Ask me about a John Prine song sometime. It almost always gets me a Laine kiss.
And I’ll tell you something that I have never told Laine. As I was standing next to her while getting married overlooking the spectacular Snoqualmie Falls, the priest went on muttering stuff and I smiled, repeating to myself –
For the moon never beams without bringing me dreams
Of the beautiful Annabelle Lee;
And the stars never rise but I feel the bright eyes
Of the beautiful Annabelle Lee.
Coincidently, on October 2nd, 1959, The Twilight Zone premiered on CBS.
You unlock this door with the key of imagination. Beyond it is another dimension: a dimension of sound, a dimension of sight, a dimension of mind. You’re moving into a land of both shadow and substance, of things and ideas; you’ve just crossed over into the BALI HI Zone
This month we will feature the vibrant, bright and bold acrylics of Mershell Sherman. Mershell’s tropical art will brighten your winter walls and fill your home or office with light! He uses many reclaimed materials and is further exploring texture, color and form in his inspired art. As Mershell hung his colorful offerings yesterday in the gallery area all I could do was smile. Hopefully you can take home one of his affordable paintings and it will keep you smiling and warm though the darker days. Come meet Mershell on 1st Friday from 6PM to 10PM. As always we will serve “island style” treats.
Bali-HI is having a special sale on all our clothes this month both new and vintage. All clothes and sarongs are 25% off. Now is the time to get that real Hawaiian Aloha Shirt you have been longing for, if it is too cold to wear you can hang it on the wall too! Works by other local, Hawaiian and Bali artists are also on display and we still have some of Gianna Mitchell’s matted wave prints and a few framed ones as well. What a great gift these are for the surfer in your life.
2nd Sunday, 10/12 from noon to 5 PM is shaping up to be a “sporting event” as Cycle Circus with a costumed bike parade. We never really know how these “happenings” will turn out but we have learned to expect the unexpected. As always some live music, food and lots of galleries open and doing their thing. In light of all the recent cycling deaths in Tallahassee we also hope to offer some bike safety as part of this event.
And the Hits just keep on coming like AM Radio – On October 18th the Railroad Square Art Park will be celebrating FALL FEVER. The Park will be overflowing with some 30 community organizations, FSU clubs and Leon County Schools set up to display and explain how they are involved in giving back to Tallahassee and how you can participate. We also have some 8 musical groups performing on two stages throughout the day. FALL FEVER could possibly be the most fun that you can have in public. It will definitely be the most fun that we can jam in between Noon and 5pm on that day.